by Christine Li | Sep 18, 2013 | All Posts, Resistance
Always, as much as possible, move toward the task. I mean with all the parts of yourself — physical, spiritual, emotional, and cognitive. All these different components of you are part of your capacity to work towards your goals. It does not suffice to come...
by Christine Li | Sep 15, 2013 | All Posts, Theories
Over the past year, I have learned to value the importance of transition. I don’t know why it has taken me this long, but now that my eyes are open to the importance of transition, I cannot help but see people in transition wherever I look. Since I work...
by Christine Li | Sep 12, 2013 | Actions, All Posts, Theories
So, in between the last post and this one, you’ve stopped being a perfectionist, right? Just a little joke to empathize with the reality that perfectionism is a really hard habit to break. I recommend you think about dropping this maladaptive style of doing...
by Christine Li | Sep 11, 2013 | Actions, All Posts, Theories
Dreaming of being perfect. One of my favorite pastimes. I still do this despite the fact that I know better. I know better because I know perfectionism hurts, and I know I am really prone to acting imperfectly. That said, I thought it would be helpful to share...
by Christine Li | Sep 6, 2013 | All Posts, Thoughts
Oftentimes, while we are procrastinating, we launch into a series of thoughts about our work or our predicament that seems worthwhile…like — if only I had my red pen, then I would be able to do this better last year would have been a much better...