by Christine Li | Nov 12, 2015 | Actions, All Posts, Resistance
As a psychologist, I’m able to see patterns in the types of topics my patients talk about. They often resemble what I see within my own life, but since I’m intently focused when I’m working, I tend to see these types of patterns more clearly when...
by Christine Li | Aug 27, 2015 | All Posts, Feelings, Resistance, Techniques
Why should I put myself out there? In some ways, Procrastinators are really really smart. They know what’s up when they say to themselves — “If no one is looking, why should I put myself out there?” After all, if we don’t put ourselves...
by Christine Li | Aug 11, 2015 | Actions, All Posts, Feelings, Resistance, Techniques
This week I found myself going around in circles creatively, and not in a good way. I had just finished a few major projects, including wrapping up teaching my on-line course, Open to the Possibilities. I was left with a little more time on my hands, and nothing...
by Christine Li | Jul 31, 2015 | Actions, All Posts, Resistance, Resources, Techniques
Repetition is your friend. Repetition allows you to get comfortable. It allows you to feel at ease in your performance. It allows you to preserve your mental space for more complex matters you need to concentrate on. But sometimes, being able to repeat certain...
by Christine Li | Jul 25, 2015 | Actions, All Posts, Feelings, Resistance
Let’s try to figure out what’s getting in your way. Why can’t you finish what you’ve started? Why do your ideas never see the light of day? Why can’t you introduce yourself to that cute new neighbor of yours? Why is your workspace a...
by Christine Li | Jul 14, 2015 | All Posts, Feelings, Resistance, Resources, Thoughts
There’s something I’ve been meaning to tell you. I’ve been trying mightily to train myself to let things be. This is harder than getting a Ph.D. in Psychology y’all since I managed that but still struggle with the other. Many life moments have...