by Christine Li | Jan 12, 2015 | Actions, All Posts, Resistance, Social, Steps of the Day, Techniques
One of my personal specialties is pretending I don’t have real problems with Procrastination. One of my oldest tricks in getting people to believe this and in actually getting some work done is partnering with a friend or colleague (or total stranger) in order...
by Christine Li | Jan 8, 2015 | All Posts, Feelings, Resistance, Social, Theories
Recently I’ve come to think Procrastinators may be overly conscious about fitting in. For example, we may be more likely to think… Is it good enough? rather than Does it stand out? We may be more likely to worry… Does it sound right? instead of...
by Christine Li | Nov 24, 2014 | All Posts, Feelings, Social
There’s a whole bunch of things I don’t understand about people who do not Procrastinate. I don’t understand how they can break through their anxiety every time. I don’t know how they can keep to their own plans every time. I don’t know how they must feel...
by Christine Li | Oct 31, 2014 | Actions, All Posts, Feelings, Social
Procrastinators are real drags. We complain. We mope. We are heavy in spirit. We have lost the pleasure of having fun because we feel like we are behind time. As if time is running ahead of us. That is certainly not a fun feeling. Others around us don’t really...
by Christine Li | Sep 25, 2014 | Actions, All Posts, Social, Theories
Since I spend my days working as a psychologist, I spend a lot of time thinking about, participating in, and looking at communication and communication dynamics. I think about: what people are saying what they are not saying what they want to say what I want and...
by Christine Li | Sep 16, 2014 | All Posts, Resistance, Resources, Social
I’ve been having some difficulty getting my act together regarding this blog lately. I haven’t been posting consistently, and some days it feels like the well has run dry. What I’ve realized in thinking about this current situation is that running a...